Welcome back to This is India! I always have funny/weird stories about India to share with friends or family when I talk to them. This is just meant to be an honest portrayal about my life in India through short anecdotes. I also share here what I’ve been up to online outside Hippie in Heels.
What I was up to other than here:
- So, I guess I’m finally going to say about the new job I got which is writing for Bravo TV. I didn’t want to jinx it until my first article went live, which it has. You can read it here. A real paycheck, a W9 to fill out for taxes… real life stuff! Bravo is my favorite.. I’m addicted to the Real Housewives and ridiculous reality TV so to write for them is pretty crazy.
- In other news, I’m off to Istanbul early February. I’ll be attending the World Tourism Forum as a guest & then staying after a few days to explore the city before flying back. I would stay longer, but Ben can’t come and he’s turning… 30!!! (on Feb 18) so I’m trying to plan a getaway for him. Where would you want to go (in Asia) for your 30th?
Now your story,
We were driving toward the Kaziranga National Park in Assam. I was sitting in the front because I’d been car sick. We turned off the main road to a tiny little village road and were looking out the window at all the Diwali decorations and people out with their families in the front yards.
Their were boys in the road up ahead… they were standing in the middle of the road, maybe 5 of them. Then about 4 more older people near their houses. Our driver came to a stop, rather than honking to tell them to move which is the norm in India. I knew something was up, so the first thing I did was check that my door was locked (I always think I worst, I guess).
It wasn’t thieves, or anything too terrible in the end.
It was just village “kids” (maybe aged about 25) extorting money from people on their way to the park. They were saying at first, give us money for our festivals, so that we can decorate.
Sange handed 20 Rs. up to the driver to give to them. They didn’t budge. It wasn’t enough. Out of principle, I said I won’t give them a dime. If it’s festival, invite me in for tea! Don’t literally force me to give you money.
So, it can go one of two ways really. I can either say what I think and go off in Hindi, “Kallas kar de ga, chute!!!” which basically means “I’ll finish you” but is a gangster way of saying I’m gonna kill you, and chute, well it’s like the c* word. I knew this wasn’t the correct answer.
I can tell them they should be ashamed of themselves in Hindi “aup ne uper saram karo!”, that they are bad people. Of course, my spelling is probably wrong of those, I can only say some Hindi not type it. I knew this wouldn’t work either.
You can try to shock them into backing off… but what would it accomplish? It would just make them more angry. It would embarrass them, and make them retaliate. So I shut my mouth (which was REALLY hard… seriously, these little idiots trying to scare us).
I hope they read this one day and feel really dumb.
I just looked down and bit my tongue (ok, there were a couple dirty looks given from my end). Anna was quiet too. We chatted a bit saying let’s not give them money. They need to learn they can’t do this. Just drive away. They changed their reasons for the money to “road tax” a very common scam in India, and one I’m not new to.
If we drove away, they would certainly have more people waiting down the road to stop us. Sange said pushing past was an absolutely no. The guy looked right at me and said in English “100 Rs”.
I gave him the look of disgust and said “I won’t give you 1 Rs. and don’t talk to me.” Sange then told them, we’ll take another road. You don’t get anymore money. It seemed to have worked because they accepted the 20 Rs. and backed off.
I hate the injustice of India. I hate that these “kids” have parents just chilling, watching probably, not giving two shits that they have kids happy to extort money and without making it clear there is an “or else”. Total bullshit.
I know “extort” seems like a big word to use in a situation as innocent as this- but truth is, when you don’t oblige what they want, things DO get nasty sometimes; I have seen it myself.
This is India!
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Quite common scam in all touristy places…. Not sure when it will change… It really paints a bad image of India . They could try to make a honest pay while working as a guide but no “We want free money !!!”…
Yeah it’s pretty bad stuff :(
Love the way u articulate…. and yes those are ‘chutiya’ extortion tactics… I hope we Indians will b able to live upto the true sense of ‘atithi devo bhava’ sm day…
Thanks for your comment! I hope that when the police see these things, they stop it.
its great that you did not give in to them..i don’t have so much courage..i would have given in,esp.as it was about a religious festival..
Yeah, I guess I am a bit stubborn!
Congrats on your first article being published!
I is exciting you get to go to Istanbul! It is so beautiful, you will love it!
I would want to go to Ankor Wat for my birthday.
I have heard people talk about this road scam. Good for you for not giving them money. There are crazy people everywhere.
Thank you! :) That’s a fun birthday idea, and Ben hasn’t been there yet!
You’re right about the crazy people lol
Yeah it happens with every tourist, i think government should take some action about this, But i think these kind of incident happens in every country.
Congrats on your new gig
*Sigh* stuff like this annoys me so much – and like you say, what are you going to do in that situation?
Great work about the Istanbul gig – hope all goes well :)
Yeah- it’s really a lose lose situation with guys like that!